If you want to know the truth, look in your heart. God speaks truth to your heart. You will know what God would say to you. He would never tell you how inadequate you are or compare you to someone else. It is not His nature to tell you how bad things are or that there is no hope. Recognize the truth that is being spoken in your heart, truth that you instinctively know.
Look in your heart for truth and declare it repeatedly until it becomes a new deeply rooted belief. When you renew your mind to a new belief, you will view life from this vantage point, and you will be free.
And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free. John 8:32